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Retraite de méditation in Thaïlande | Meditation retreat in Thailand

Flying back to Thailand was a good opportunity for us to experiment meditation. So we did an eight-day Vipassana meditation retreat at the Meditation Centre of the Doi Suthep Temple, located on a mountain that overlooks Chiang Mai. A truly rewarding experience! Feedback.

No, meditation is not just about sitting without moving until you catch a cramp in your leg or squash the fly that makes TOO MUCH NOISE! Even though you’re not completely wrong, what is actually interesting is what happens inside your body. And meditation is well known for its many benefits on the body and mind. Just let’s see.

Walking meditation and sitting meditation

Before sharing our experience, let’s give a short introduction about meditation as we generally don’t know much about it before practising. But of course you can skip it and read directly the 2nd part on our experience: “Eight days of Vipassana meditation: feedback”.

Vipassana meditation

In a few words

To make it short, Vipassana meditation is a practice that consists in calming down the mind to evacuate the tension and negative thoughts that affect us in our daily life and make us unhappy. It helps us stopping dwelling on emotions such as envy, bitterness, self-depreciation, hate, etc. and producing good emotions in the brain.

Our mind keeps naturally thinking all the time: we worry about the future; we dwell on the past, etc. Well, our mind wanders everywhere except in the present moment, far from what we called mindfulness.

Vipassana means “clear-seeing”, in other words seeing things as they really are.

Origins: where does it come from?

Vipassana meditation is 2500 years old and is one of the most ancient meditation techniques of India. It was first discovered by the Buddha, who used it as a teaching for all the ills. Then, this technique progressively disappeared before being reintroduced in India in 1969.

“Reconnect your body and mind.”

Concretely, what does it consist in?

Meditation consists in concentrating one’s mind on what the body is doing in order to clean it from all the thoughts that flow into it. It is a bit of a “mental training” that requires regularity and perseverance, just as when you learn how to play a sport or a music instrument. This technique is within the reach of everyone.

“We should learn to control our mind.”

The benefits of meditation

Scientific studies carried out with monks, who have been practising meditation for several decades, showed that it has a real impact on physical and mental health.

Among the benefits of meditation, here is a non-exhaustive list but which to my mind, can speak to anyone. Meditation would:

  • Increase concentration, memory and learning ability;
  • Relieve anxiety, stress and depression;
  • Improve compassion and resilience
  • Help to reduce insomnia due to too much thinking;
  • Reinforce the immune system;
  • Lower blood pressure;
  • Protect brain from degeneration;
  • Help to better live chronic pain, as it would help the brain to better “organize” itself to fight against pain
  • Etc.

“Smiling and laughing spread positive hormones in the brain and the body”

Meditation position

Eight days of Vipassana meditation: feedback

An individual practice

During our retreat at the Doi Suthep Temple, we learnt the meditation as it was taught by the Buddha and as it is practiced by the monks. The teaching is led by a monk – the “Teacher” – but it is an individual practice. Everyone organises their meditation time as he/she likes. It is a personal learning.

Take off the shoes to meditate

In brief

  • Silent retreat with 8 to 10 hours of meditation per day
  • Two meals per day: breakfast at 7 am, lunch at 11 am. No solid food should be eaten after 12 pm.
  • A cycle of meditation is walking meditation followed by sitting meditation of same duration
  • No other activity should be done (no reading, no writing, no sport, etc.)

A typical day

5 am – Start of the day: we wake up and get dressed. We must wear white clothes (symbol of purity) as we are learners.

5:30 am – Dhamma talk: teaching given by the monk about life and how to live happy. It’s not about religion, but just food for thought based on the Buddhist philosophy of life. It is interesting and funny as the monk sprinkles his speech with anecdotes from the believers who visit him. Monks sometimes play a role of psychologists.

“Don’t let external factors – what you see, hear, etc. – disturb your inner happiness.”

7 am – Breakfast: we have it at the refectory and all the dishes are vegetarian, out of respect for the Buddhist philosophy: noodle, rice, vegetables, herbs, tofu, tempeh, etc. We eat silently and consciously. At mealtime, the refectory looks a bit like a mental hospital with all the people dressed in white clothes, the tiled floor and a complete silence … ;-)

Please do not consume meat on these premises

8 am – Morning meditation: three hours of meditation according to the last instructions given by the monk (first given on arrival and then during the daily reports).

There are three meditation rooms: the ceremony hall, the meditation hall and the little temple. But we can also meditate pretty much everywhere (outside, in our room, in the hallways, etc.).

Meditation room at the Doi Suthep meditation centre

11 am – Lunch: A buffet serves rice with three or four Thai vegetarian dishes to be served in a compartment plate. After lunch, we have some free time to rest or do some cleaning. A small shop opens and we can buy functional products (toilet paper, washing powder, tooth paste, etc.) or more “luxury” ones (chocolate, soft drinks, etc.). It’s useful and soft drinks help to wait until breakfast the day after.

12:30 pm – Afternoon meditation: 5.5 hours of meditation interrupted by the daily report with the monk. It is recommended to have a 5 to 10 minute break between every cycle of meditation to stretch our legs (and stop this bloody cramp!).

Between 1 pm and 2 pm – The individual daily report to the monk: It lasts 5 minutes. The monk gives new instructions to follow until the next report. It allows us to improve ourselves and get some reassurance when we encounter difficulties.

6 pm – Chanting: one hour of chanting Buddhist texts, in unison (or almost) with the monk.

9 pm – End of the day

Doi Suthep Meditation Centre

Doi Suthep Meditation Centre

Practical instructions to start meditation

This is not a practical guide but only the instructions we got from the monk to start practicing meditation.

Walking meditation

Walking meditation consists of walking slowly in a straight line, eyes opened, focusing the mind on the foot that we move. After about 15 steps, we stop, turn around and walk back. And so on.

At every step, we describe the movement in our head: “up, move, down”. When a thought comes to the mind, we stop it by saying three times what has distracted us, for example if it is a thought, then we say: “thinking, thinking, thinking”; a sensation: “feeling, feeling, feeling”; a noise “hearing, hearing, hearing”; etc. And then, we bring our mind back on our foot and we continue to meditate.

Describing what we are currently doing enables us to force the mind to concentrate on the current action and thus avoid overthinking. We act consciously in order to reach the absolute present.

Sitting meditation

Ideally, we sit comfortably on one or two meditation cushions in one of the two following positions:

  • The Lotus Position (or crossed-legged), palms turned upwards, one hand on top of the other placed in front of the lower-abdomen, thumbs touching each other
  • Sitting on one’s feet (shinbones on the floor), hands as described above

We breathe from the belly and concentrate our mind on our breathing. As for the walking meditation, we describe in our mind what we’re doing: “inhale” when breathing in, “exhale” when breathing out. When a thought comes into the mind, same technique as for the walking meditation to reconnect the mind with the body.

Day by day and as we are doing better and better, the monk gives us new steps. So after “inhale” and “exhale”, we have to think of our sitting position and of our body as a whole, and say in our mind “sitting”. Then, we point on different parts of the body (lower back, buttocks, knees, etc.) on which we have to push mentally, changing the point every time: “inhale” (breath in), “exhale” (breath out), “sitting” (sitting position), and “pushing” (mentally pushing on the first point). Etc.

“Energy is linked to breathing.”

As time went by, the meditation length evolved. We started with 15 min. walking + 15 min. sitting meditation, until 30 min. each at the end of the retreat.

Lying meditation

The monk told us to do a 5-min lying meditation just before sleeping in order to calm down the mind and fall asleep more easily. While lying on the back, you just have to put the hands on the belly and think “inhale” (when breathing in) and “exhale” (when breathing out), then “lying” (while becoming aware of all the part of your body that is in contact with the mattress).

Impressions and sensations

These are some impressions on my first steps of my meditation learning during this retreat. I won’t share all my feelings in details because this is an individual and personal experience, and what we can feel when meditating is proper to each.

In general terms, I haven’t had any difficulties to adapt myself neither to the planning (waking up at 5:00 am; going to bed at 9:00 pm) with only two meals a day, nor to the complete silence.

Mandatory silence

Regarding my experience about learning how to meditate, I have progressed by steps. Bizarrely enough, as my mind was calming down, I had sleep disorders, and I realized that many of the other people had the same problem. I would wake up once or many times per night. As for the motivation, it varied. Some days (not many however), I didn’t feel like meditating, but when I forced myself motivation ended up by coming. Other days, I experienced very good sensations and I was over motivated.

Difficult starts

The first two or three days were the most difficult ones to concentrate because I started meditation from scratch. Everything can disturb, even a bird song is loud, and dog barks are irritating … Well, we lose all our bearings. Even the cushions gently touching the meditation mat could let a sigh out.

“Always try one more time!”

Three, seven, or twenty-one days are learning steps. And after three days, I actually got the feeling to pass a milestone.

First sensations

After the fourth day, I started to feel more at ease while practicing meditation and to be less disturbed by noises and movements around me. It seems that my concentration improved. If at the beginning I really needed to pronounce the three words that help to take the mind back when it went away, then becoming aware of it was enough for the mind to refocus by itself on what the body was doing. I also noticed that my pace (breathing, walking, etc.) naturally slowed down and evolved into more conscious movements.

What was incredible is that the first two days, I got tensions in my back after a few sitting meditations (you know those strong ropes crossing the upper back), certainly because of a bad position or a lack of experience. But then I had the satisfaction to feel those tensions vanish the days after, just by carrying on meditation. When I think that a one-hour Thai massage is sometimes barely enough to completely relax all the tensions, believe me, meditation is powerful!

Statue of a meditating monk

Lots of ideas

Without going too much into detail, my sensations increased as the days went by. I also observed that my concentration improved, my mind calmed down, and I felt more and more at ease when I meditated. I also felt the energy circulated throughout my body.

Bizarrely enough, some days I got lots of ideas and desires, and a huge enthusiasm to realize them. Unfortunately, I could only calm down my mind, as I was not supposed to think too much. But it was an extremely positive and pleasant feeling.

“Learn to know yourself. Never stop learning about yourself.”

Conclusion

Starting meditation through an eight-day retreat was definitely a good idea (and I would have stayed ten days if we hadn’t had something planned just after) because it helps to progress quickly. We come through the hard and somehow demoralizing – although interesting – first step.

“When you feel sad or upset, you have to break this negative energy.”

Now I have been practicing meditation, I am convinced of its benefits. But I am also aware that it is a real training with all the investment and regularity that it implies. However, I sincerely think that it’s worth investing time and efforts because the results are extremely rewarding. This is a powerful technique that leads to a good life balance and helps to feel physically and mentally well, no matter what happens. Apart from that, it gives some keys to evolve at many levels of our own life, as well as strength to come through any difficult periods we may encounter.

Back to normal life

During the departure ceremony, the monk advised us to do at least once a week 15 min. of walking and 15 min. of sitting meditation. I found it wasn’t enough at first and promised myself to meditate everyday. And the day after came, and I said to myself that if I ever managed to take time to do it once a week, then it would be good! I was back to the reality of everyday life. The “Teacher” was right. He knows better than us how difficult it is to take a slow pace … So I try to keep on meditating regularly, and little by little to integrate meditation into my life. And I remember the Teacher’s words …

“Forget the past concerns, don’t worry too much about the future, and take care of yourself!”

 

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PRACTICAL INFO

If you want to experiment a Vipassana meditation retreat, many centres offer some stays, mainly for a 10-day duration.

Find a Vipassana meditation centre worldwide

The dhamma.org web site lists centres worldwide that offer Vipassana meditation retreats. The web site is well done and gives the availabilities for each. There are no fees covering accommodation, teaching and food, but it works on a system of donation to enable the other people to live the same experience.

Doi Suthep Temple in Chiang Mai

Do a retreat at the Doi Suthep Temple in Chiang Mai

Doi Suthep Vipassana Meditation Centre’s web site: You’ll find here all the practical information about the meditation retreats at the Doi Suthep Temple.

How to subscribe?

Send a request by email to doisuthepinfo@gmail.com, give your dates, gender (separate male and female dorms) and ask for availabilities. You will get an answer within a few days. No meditation experience is required.

What do you need?

  • A passport and visa, which must be valid for all the duration of your stay.
  • Sets of white clothes (at least two sets or some detergent for washing)
  • An alarm-clock (mobile phone, clock radio, etc.) for the mornings and timing the meditations
  • Toiletries
  • Some cash to buy soft drinks, washing powder, toilet paper, etc. at the little shop if needed.

How to reach the temple?

By saong-taa-ou (collective red taxis). It will cost you 50 bahts per person if the taxi is full. When you arrive, walk up the 300 hundred stairs to reach the temple, go on to your right, walk down the stairs to the meditation centre by following the signs. Arrive 30 minutes before to have enough time to get there.

Not decided for a retreat? Try meditation in Chiang Mai for free.

The Wat Srisuphan Temple offers free 1.5 hour-meditation initiation courses every Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday and Sunday at 7:30 pm.

Have you tried meditation or do you practice regularly? What are the benefits you got from practicing meditation?

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5 Comments

  1. Marion

    Verone and Erik I am full of admiration that you have done this eight day meditation. I can’t imagine so many hours per day being so disciplined. My yoga class each week has at least 3/4 hour of meditation and I find that such a release. I definitely sleep better those nights. There seems to be no harder task than to be mindful and have the mind free of both positive and negative thoughts but to just “be”. Namaste

    • Ah ah! :-D Actually, we weren’t allowed to do anything else than meditating, so that helped a lot!
      Thanks for sharing your experience. Good to hear that you feel the positive effects of meditation, even with a weekly practice. It’s hard work indeed, but it’s definitely worth it!

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  3. Karley

    This is really helpful! Did you look into other options besides this one? I am thinking about Wat Saun Mokkh in Surat Thani, but wanted to look into other options. Would love to know why you decided on this one/what others you considered! Thank you!

    • Hi Karley, Sorry for answering late. We were on the road again… ;-) Actually, we considered a few options but not that many. We were looking for an authentic place in Thailand like this meditation centre in the temple (and not a private wellness centre as there are many in Thailand), that was easy to reach from Bangkok. Then I read an article about someone who experienced a meditation retreat there and it sounded very much similar to what we were looking for. What I read about this temple then finished to convince me that it was the right place for us, and it was. Of course, there are other places like this in Thailand and around the world (I give a link at the end of the article btw). I didn’t know the one you mention, but it might be also a good one. Maybe look for some feedbacks on the Internet to see if it is serious. But if this is in a temple, it should deliver a good and authentic practice normally. Good luck with it! And feel free to give us your feedback afterwards. Thanks for visiting us!

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